52% of individuals accused of domestic abuse deny the allegations*

DADSS

Domestic Abuse Defence Support Service

Served with a Domestic Abuse Protection Order (DAPO) or a Non Molestation Order?

Been accused of domestic abuse or violence? 

Help without charge and without judgement

About Us
We are the only online service dedicated to providing free support and guidance to individuals who have been accused of domestic abuse, been served with a Domestic Abuse Protection Order (DAPO) or a Non-Molestation Order (Non-Mol). 

These legal orders can be confusing and overwhelming. You don’t have to navigate them alone.

Our mission is to inform you of your rights, connect you with legal experts, and provide resources to assist you in managing the broader implications of these orders on your life. We recognise the impact these situations can have on your family, finances, and living arrangements. 

We are here to help you without charge and without judgement.

Legal Aid
Yes, you might be eligable for legal aid.

Regardless of the crime you are accused of, you have the right to defend yourself against the allegations. Even if you are guilty, it is your human right to mitigate any potential punishments through legal defence. This ensures that the legal system remains fair and just, providing everyone with an opportunity to present their case.

How We Help

Know Your Rights

We provide clear and comprehensive information about your rights under DAPOs and Non-Mol orders. Understanding the legal framework and your obligations is the first step in effectively managing your situation.

Legal Referrals

Finding the right solicitor is crucial. We refer you to experienced family law solicitors who can offer personalised advice and representation. They will ensure that any child arrangements are considered, protecting your parental rights and ensuring the best interests of your children.

Child Arrangements

DAPO and Non-Mol orders can significantly affect your relationship with your children. Our partner solicitors work diligently to address child custody and visitation arrangements, striving for outcomes that are in the best interests of your family.

Financial

We recognise that these orders can disrupt your financial stability and living situation. DADSS provides resources and referrals to organisations that can assist with financial planning and housing solutions.

Get in Touch

If you have been served with a Domestic Abuse Protection Order or Non-Molestation Order, reach out to DADSS today. Our compassionate team is ready to offer the support and guidance you need to navigate this challenging time.

We are not solicitors and do not offer legal advice but we know people who are, let us help you connect.

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* Percentage

a 2024 survey of 125 accused perpetrators of domestic abuse

52%

of respondents say they are wrongly accused

21%

of respondents deny any abusive behavior whatsoever

18%

of respondents have not seen their accusers in a considerable time

12%

of respondents say they are in fact the abused

Overview of the survey
In 2024, a survey was conducted among 125 individuals accused of domestic abuse to better understand their perspectives and circumstances. The findings highlight a range of responses, from outright denial of allegations to claims of victimisation. While the survey reflects only the self-reported views of accused individuals and does not assess the validity of claims, it provides insight into how allegations are perceived by those facing them and underscores the complexity often present in domestic abuse cases.

52% report being wrongly accused
Just over half of respondents (52%) stated that they believe the allegations made against them are false. These individuals report that the accusations do not accurately reflect their actions or behaviour and often cite misunderstandings, conflict escalation, or legal disputes as contributing factors. This finding illustrates how frequently accused individuals perceive the justice process as flawed or unfair from their perspective.

21% deny any abusive behaviour
Twenty-one percent of respondents reported that they have never engaged in abusive behaviour of any kind. This group distinguishes between relationship conflict and abuse, asserting that normal disagreements or emotional disputes were mischaracterised as domestic abuse. Their responses highlight differing interpretations of what constitutes abuse and raise questions about how behaviours are defined and assessed in allegations.

18% have not seen their accusers for a considerable time
Eighteen percent of respondents indicated they had not had contact with their accuser for a significant period before or since the allegation. Some cite long-term separation, estrangement, or lack of recent interaction as reasons they dispute the claims. This suggests that, in some cases, allegations may arise after relationships have ended, adding complexity to timelines and evidential assessment.

12% identify themselves as the abused party
Twelve percent of respondents reported that they believe they are, in fact, the victims of abuse. These individuals describe experiences of emotional, physical, or psychological harm inflicted by their accusers. Their accounts point to the possibility of reciprocal or unreported abuse and emphasise the importance of thorough, impartial investigation in domestic abuse cases.