In 2024, a survey was conducted among 125 individuals accused of domestic abuse to better understand their perspectives and circumstances. The findings highlight a range of responses, from outright denial of allegations to claims of victimisation. While the survey reflects only the self-reported views of accused individuals and does not assess the validity of claims, it provides insight into how allegations are perceived by those facing them and underscores the complexity often present in domestic abuse cases.

52% report being wrongly accused
Just over half of respondents (52%) stated that they believe the allegations made against them are false. These individuals report that the accusations do not accurately reflect their actions or behaviour and often cite misunderstandings, conflict escalation, or legal disputes as contributing factors. This finding illustrates how frequently accused individuals perceive the justice process as flawed or unfair from their perspective.

21% deny any abusive behaviour
Twenty-one percent of respondents reported that they have never engaged in abusive behaviour of any kind. This group distinguishes between relationship conflict and abuse, asserting that normal disagreements or emotional disputes were mischaracterised as domestic abuse. Their responses highlight differing interpretations of what constitutes abuse and raise questions about how behaviours are defined and assessed in allegations.

18% have not seen their accusers for a considerable time
Eighteen percent of respondents indicated they had not had contact with their accuser for a significant period before or since the allegation. Some cite long-term separation, estrangement, or lack of recent interaction as reasons they dispute the claims. This suggests that, in some cases, allegations may arise after relationships have ended, adding complexity to timelines and evidential assessment.

12% identify themselves as the abused party
Twelve percent of respondents reported that they believe they are, in fact, the victims of abuse. These individuals describe experiences of emotional, physical, or psychological harm inflicted by their accusers. Their accounts point to the possibility of reciprocal or unreported abuse and emphasise the importance of thorough, impartial investigation in domestic abuse cases.